Unfortunately, they are pretty people who have these negative thoughts on a permanent basis. If we stop to think carefully about our form of behaviour, which on the other hand, do not almost never, since we live too fast and there is little time to stop to think about our own existence, we realize, that too often people see you lastradas by a wrong and absurd concept that we have of ourselves, of our way of being, and that incapacitates us to grow and advance in any activity that we try to carry out. We think that we are in a certain way, and we can not change as much as we try, we are also absolutely aware of that way of being hurts us. As well, anyone can change for the better, but, provided that such change is a decision result of own conviction, but never the imposition of other persons. Change by others tell you to do it, is not an option for nothing recommendable, especially after certain ages (don’t talk about children and even young adolescents who need permanent Council and guidance of parents and educators). Each has to make a decision to modify his behavior, when it is completely safe, since it has reached the conclusion that that will benefit their personal development. There are others however, leaving his work of construction makes it much easier to accuse others of their own mistakes. It is very convenient that always point to others committed failures, and create a permanent defensiveness by way of armor, to continuously have at all times a justification and not recognize the mistakes that one committed throughout his life.

A phrase that defines very well this circumstance, is the sports expression, which refers to that throw balls out. There are also those who, in a sort of unchanging position of fallen arms, continuously, allude which scratched disc, bad luck, to justify his job apathy in the construction of their own existence. Build our life, is not so simple. Lift one one floor of the building, does its work, and above all do it on top of a solid base, which not splitting before the smallest blow. There will be days with cold and others with Sun, who are passing and moving around the structure of our work, even some that another earthquake of greater or lesser intensity, that will agitate with particular violence the walls of the House, but if we have built it correctly, confident that it will withstand the shock, or at least the possibilities that the building will remain standingthey will be larger than other constructions made on soils of clay and mud. Multitude of circumstances, we will live a unfavorable times and others that will be on our side. The individual there will be times of abundance, and others of narrowness, but at all times should keep secure, the reins of the horse of his own life, and always thinking in positive. Add, grow and advance should be arrows indicating the path to follow. (In this life it is easy to die, build life is much more difficult.